Fords Middle School gym teacher accused of molesting female student, 14
By Ken Serrano | Woodbridge InJersey
UPDATE: Fords Middle School gym teacher admits he molested girl

Fords Middle School gym teacher arrested on charges of molesting student.
Matthew J. Smith, 26, of Hudson Boulevard in Avenel was arrested at his home Wednesday evening. He was charged with aggravated criminal sexual contact and endangering the welfare of the child, according to a statement by Middlesex County Prosecutor Bruce Kaplan and Woodbridge Police Chief William Trenery.
Smith was being held at the Middlesex County Adult Correction Center in North Brunswick in lieu of $75,000 bail.
Detective Robert Ptaszynski of the Woodbridge Police Department and Investigator James Kelly of the Prosecutor's Office found that Smith sent sexually explicit messages to the student's cell phone, according to the statement. Smith molested the same student in a vehicle in a separate incident, Kaplan and Trenery said. The crimes occurred in June 2009 when the child was 14 years old, they said.
A call from the child's mother to school authorities and the police started the investigation.
Smith began as a student teacher at the Fanning Street middle school in the spring of 2008 and got a full-time job teaching physical education the following September.
Woodbridge schools Superintendent John Crowe said Smith was making $50,535 a year. Crowe declined to comment otherwise, referring the call to the Prosecutor's Office.
If convicted of the endangering charge alone, Smith faces up to 10 years in prison.
It was unknown whether Smith has hired an attorney.
Authorities are urging anyone with information on the crime to call Ptaszynski at 732-634-7700 or Kelly at 732-745-3600.













Kassy 5:18 pm on April 22, 2010 Permalink
Poor Mr.Smith. THis is bull shit. he didnt molest no one. Love ya Mr<3
concernedmom 7:09 pm on April 22, 2010 Permalink
I don’t know the whole story and I definitely believe in innocent until proven guilty………. however, sexually explicit text messages are pretty easy to prove.
ddee 9:36 pm on April 22, 2010 Permalink
Kassy you so ignorant..How do you know this is a lie?? People like you are the reason scum like him constantly molests CHILDREN!!
Police saw the texting messages from HIS phone to HERS..How is that BS?? Why would ANY Teacher, let alone a GROWN man, be texting perverted pictures and messages to a little girl..
What if this was your little girl??
Sickening!
Jerzygirl41 11:59 pm on April 22, 2010 Permalink
ddee OBVIOUSLY Kassy is a student of his who believes in him! How dare you attack someone for believing the best in people. I think that IF he did this it was an awful disgusting thing to do, but there is talk he dated her mother and how knows if the mother isnt the sick one making this up! I know mr smith and can not believe he is capable of this, I hope that it isnt true. and if that were my little girl, she would know not to get into a car with a grown man and know that she should not give her cell number to a teacher! WHY are we not making our kids more aware of this and checking on our kids. a 14 yr old shouldnt have a cell phone and you better believe if it were my kid if be checking that phone!
concernedmom 7:11 am on April 23, 2010 Permalink
Jerzygirl41:
On one hand you say how dare you attack someone who believes the best in people and then you attack the alleged victim.
If this was your little girl I certainly hope that you would treat her with dignity and not blame her for what happened. Obviously this young girl also believes the best in people. And then you blame her parents for getting her a cell phone? Are you kidding?
IF this story is true, I hope everyone realizes that this girl was a victim.
freakkkkkk 8:28 am on April 23, 2010 Permalink
First of all it’s sick to know that an adult would get any pleasure from a 14 year old girl. Also, these perverted teachers are giving woodbridge township a bad name. Don’t you ever learn that your going to get caught? Haven’t you seen all the teachers from the high school being arressted? And the girl is certainly the victim she’s only 14 and had no idea what was going on. Thank god this was stopped before it could get any worse. Stay strong!
concerned 9:00 am on April 23, 2010 Permalink
Matt smith is innocent fact- he was dating the mom of the 14 year old last june the sick mother was upset that he broke up with last year…..the text messages were to the mother not the child .. People seriously need to stop assuming thing and support mr smith in the long battle he has ahead of him because of this obbesive, sick women who needs to be put away forever and her child needs to be taken away
CorporateAmerica 9:13 am on April 23, 2010 Permalink
Concerned – If what you say is true, then that is pretty horrible. However, that is why it is NEVER a good idea to date your students mom. I guess the phrase “Dont sh*t where you eat” would apply to this situation. He is 26 years old and should know better.
On the other hand, I doubt that the police would have arrested him without probable cause. Those text messages didnt magically appear on this 14 year old’s cell phone. He got himself into this situation – now he better find an awesome lawyer to get him out of it (or reduce his jail sentence).
Why do these people put themselves in these ridiculous situations?! So stupid.
mike91163 9:28 am on April 23, 2010 Permalink
“concerned”:
“…the sick mother was upset that he broke up with last year…..the text messages were to the mother not the child…”
OK, let me ask you ONE simple question: If Mr. Smith, per your quote above, was the person who ended the relationship with the “sick mother”, WHY WOULD HE BE SENDING HER (the mother) EXPLICIT MESSAGES???
Sorry, that just doesn’t add up…if the messages you claim were supposed to be sent to the mother were threatening in nature, well, that would make sense…but that sure doesn’t seem to be the case, now does it?
Also, if Mr. Smith made a mistake and sent a message to the daughter instead of the mother as intended, hey, sh*t happens-BUT, it seems apparent that there were multiple-hence the word MESSAGES, plural form.
Yes, we don’t know all the facts of the case-but your version of things just doesn’t add up, any way you twist it.
kahdija 11:06 am on April 23, 2010 Permalink
the girl is also at fault. at 14 you know EXACTLY what you are doing. she is a little slut, she was sending him naked pictures.
concerned 12:00 pm on April 23, 2010 Permalink
The text messages were from june of 2009 their have been no text messages sent since then ……. The mother apparently had been sharing a cell phone with the mother ……when the charges were filed the daughter didn’t even want to file them why do you the mother filed the chargest and not the daughter it is all been taking care of trust me mr smith is innocent the mother is sick and needs help
food_for_thought 1:07 pm on April 23, 2010 Permalink
The problem with society is evidenced in this thread. We shouldn’t be so quick to judge…….
Sounds great to defend a child who has allegedly been molested BUT what if that’s not the whole story…..
What about this Mr. Smith dating that child’s mom does that change things?
What if he broke up with her and this sick woman has no better way to get even from a broken heart then to make allegations about a young teacher who has decided to dedicate his life to teaching and improving the education and physical health of our young adults.
What if the text messages we are hearing about was actually a conversation between the mom and Mr.Smith because the mom apparently did not have her cell phone readily accessible she used her daughters.
What if you be the better person and not persecute a guy who you really don’t know. Let the legal process take place and give the truth an opportunity to come out before you try to burn an innocent man at the stake……… or continue to be the problem in society and keep ignorance alive.
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mike91163 1:15 pm on April 23, 2010 Permalink
food_for_thought:
Thank you for YOUR post! Unlike “concerned”‘s mess, your post made, for all intents and purposes, the same points; but, I could actually READ it!
This may sound harsh, but there are people who should not have access to a computer’s keyboard until they have a reasonable grasp of the English language. Whether the poster is 15 or 50 does not matter; readers will judge them here by their intelligence, or lack thereof, on display.
sum1whonose 2:07 pm on April 23, 2010 Permalink
Concerned, you are ignorant and will be quite embarrassed when this all is finished. I hope you are ashamed of yourself for bashing a family that you know nothing about.
There are hundreds of text messages that he sent the child. He also admitted everything. He is a sick man and it will all come to light.
Adding to the proof of your ignorance is your comment about the mother pressing the charges as opposed to the daughter. The daughter is a MINOR, she can not press the charges herself.
me!! 3:31 pm on April 23, 2010 Permalink
Sum1whonos- how do you know he admitted it?
justyouraveragegirl 4:03 pm on April 23, 2010 Permalink
Sum1whonose – Where was it stated that he admitted to it? I’ve just re-scanned the article, and no where did I see ‘he has already confessed to the accusation’. See, this is where common misconceptions form; when someone who has no idea what they’re talking about exaggerates on facts.
Also, I find it quite hypocritical that you’re scolding Concerned for ‘bashing’ the ‘victim’s’ family, while you’re doing the same to Mr. Smith. Sure, we are all well aware of the claims against him; however, we have yet to hear his side of the story. As stated in a few of the comments above my own, he was once in a relationship with the girl’s mother. Has it occurred to you that he might have possibly sent those messages to her, and maybe this is just her way to retaliate for him breaking up with her? Who knows, I could very well be wrong. But I don’t believe that it’s as black and white as you seem to think.
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someone 5:51 pm on April 23, 2010 Permalink
This man always hung around the girls in school, and the girls always hung around him as well. I am not surprised something like this happened. As for Mr. Smith, he is the victim. I believe the girl came onto him as Mr. Smith was a very well mannered person who knew how to control himself. The girl did, in fact, know what she was doing. A 14 year old is old enough to decide a simple “yes or no” to a teacher. I think that the girl should be prosecuted, not the other way.
mrsmithbeliever 1:03 am on April 25, 2010 Permalink
heres what MAY have happened . and since mr smith is sucha great guy, i believe it. he was dating this 14 year old girl’s mother. now that this mother found out he had a baby on the way, obviously she was angry. switched the sim cards on her and her daughters phone. and now everyone thinks those texts were to the daughter, when MAYBE they were. but this guy is a GREAT guy, and i highly doubt it. he’s so involved in the township , was a sports star. and he was my very own teacher. i BELIEVE in him, because I know him very well. and he would never do anything like this to a 14 year old girl. EVER. hes very respectful, and an all around great guy.
mrsmithbeliever 1:06 am on April 25, 2010 Permalink
HE DID NOT ADMIT EVERYTHING. on his facebook he stated all of these accusations are completely FALSE. he made a public statement that he dated this girl’s mother. you should know the facts before you post anything untrue. I SUPPORT MR SMITH. HE IS A GREAT TEACHER. and this will ruin his life, even if he is proven innocent. this woman is sick, and she’s messed up her daughter’s life. mr smith wouldn’t ever do this. he’s an amazing person.
Sergio Bichao 8:18 am on April 25, 2010 Permalink
Can you post the link to his Facebook page so that everyone can read his statement in his own words?
Kassy 1:43 pm on April 25, 2010 Permalink
You guys are absolutely ridiculous. How do you know what was in the messages? How do you know that there were hundreds of messages? He was dating the girl’s mother, for almost a year! there were only a few messages sent to the girl’s phone. and they were meant for the mother. she got in the car because Mr.Smith was basically her DAD. the mom made the calls to the police because she was upset about the break up between her and Matthew. Get your facts straight. (I am not Mr.Smith’s student, I am a supportive friend that he has known for a couple years)
Jerzygirl 6:24 pm on April 25, 2010 Permalink
concernedmom,
I am not attacking the young girl at all! I feel horrible for her… no matter how this turns out she’s put in the middle of this. My point is that a 14 yr old should know better than to be giving her phone number to a teacher and if he infact was sending these messages to her… WHY didnt she know to tell her mother. My parents were constantly telling me not to get into cars with strangers and even people i know without asking them etc. Also, with all the technology now a days we have to be more vigilant with what our kids are doing. I am in no way attacking this young child. I just feel that as a 14 yr old she should be more aware of things like this and we as parents need to stress to our children that things like this are not normal or ok and need to let them know to come to us if it does happen.
Jerzygirl 6:30 pm on April 25, 2010 Permalink
kahdija, i agree at 14 you should know what you are doing, but her sending him naked pictures does not help his case… she should not have had his phone number and if she was in fact sending him naked pictures he should have reported it. I hope that none of this is true as it pertains to mr smith, but i feel sorry for this 14 yr old girl either way. She was either taken advantage of by her mother, her teacher, or is seeking attention it a very disturbing way.
concernedmom 6:48 pm on April 25, 2010 Permalink
kahdija and Jerzygirl,
I don’t see any indicaton in this article that this young girl sent any pictures to Mr. Smith’s phone. The article states that he sent sexually explicit messages to her phone. I don’t think we should be making assumptions about what happened without knowing the facts.
I certainly wish the best for the families of both the young girl and Mr. Smith. Whatever the truth is, many people are going though a really hard time right now.
Jerzygirl 6:59 pm on April 25, 2010 Permalink
concernedmom, i never said they were pictures, i was responding to the comment that kahdija left about her supposedly sending pictures. All i was saying was if what she said was true, its not good for anyone involved.
Wouldn't u like 2 know 2:41 pm on April 26, 2010 Permalink
to mrsmithbeliever,
I have no idea who’s facebook you have been on because someone in matt’s family deleted his facebook the night he was arrested. and he certainly would not be friends with a student on there.
mike91163 3:58 pm on April 28, 2010 Permalink
Once this tangled, twisted web of a love triangle gets unwoven, perhaps the truth will come out…instead of this mess of “he said”/”she said” and “I know them” comments.
Ultimately, though, REGARDLESS of what the truth winds up being, this much is certain today: Mr. Smith is unquestionably guilty of extremely POOR JUDGEMENT. Whatever possessed him to get involved with EITHER the girl OR the mother defies any definition of logic, common sense, or concern.
There’s an old cliche: “Don’t sh*t where you eat”, and it surely applies here. Getting involved romantically with the parent of one of your students just screams DANGER!
concernedmom 6:01 pm on April 28, 2010 Permalink
I agree with mike91163. No matter what the truth is, this is a really bad situation for everyone involved.
Also, Mr Smith’s family deleting his facebook page the day he was arrested only makes it look like he had something to hide.
teacher035 6:59 pm on April 29, 2010 Permalink
Is this Matt Smith also a football coach at WHS?
Wouldn't u like 2 know 11:43 am on April 30, 2010 Permalink
teacher035 Yes, I believe so. He coached many sports at the high school.
from_08872 4:24 pm on May 3, 2010 Permalink
I do not know anyone involved in this. I have only read the media’s version, which I tend to believe out is riddled with sensationalism and void of particular facts.
I have a hard time believing that a mom would not check her 13/14 year old’s cell phone or even the bill to decipher who she is talking to and about what on a regular basis. I know I would.
It does make a logical argument that it was a switched sim card. Or, perhaps her mom gave the daughter her cell phone after buying a new phone she added as part of a “family plan”. And, wanting retaliation for a broken heart or whatever, she did a typical witch (with a capital B) move to destroy a man’s reputation and career.
I have lived through similar semantics with my son – a girl claiming one horrible thing, then finding out it was all in retaliation for him breaking up with the girl’s bff. Spiteful high school “mean” girls could have destroyed my son’s future if it weren’t for the girl changing her story and me questioning those changes. This is why I do not automatically label anyone a “victim” or hang the accused.
Like Gregory House, M.D. says, “Everybody lies”.
See what the actual facts, if presented, are.
concerned 5:31 pm on May 3, 2010 Permalink
from_08872:
It’s true we don’t have all the facts and Mr. Smith is innocent until proven guilty, but no matter what the facts, this girl IS a victim.
She is either a victim of molestation and child endangerment by Mr. Smith or if the scenario you state above is true, she is also a victim of child endangerment by her mother.
Either way, this girl is going to need some help.
Hopefully the truth comes out and the right person is punished, whether it be Mr. Smith or this girl’s mother.
from_08872 6:10 pm on May 3, 2010 Permalink
The only other scenario I didn’t present was retaliation on the girl’s part; for whatever reason.
One thing that bothers me the most is that this text is almost a year old. You don’t check your kid’s phone records or texts for almost a year? And strange that it was about the time the teacher and the mom broke up. And further strange is that it was only one!
Also, by the way, an unwanted hug could be sexual molestation which means that the genitalia doesn’t have to be touched. The legal definition of “sexual molestation” is very broad. Let us not even assume that he touched her private parts in anyway yet. Let’s wait until the girl gets on the stand to testify.
If the charges are dismissed, we will never know because the media owns the information and they can bend it all they want. Then the charge will be on the teacher’s record and the ‘victim’ will walk away unscathed. It’s an unfair practice that, unfortunately, I’ve seen happen before.
He11 hath no fury as a woman scorned.
Sergio Bichao 6:23 pm on May 3, 2010 Permalink
We report all the information we can get a hold of, and that includes what the charges are and what the police say.
If the accused and victim are willing to talk, we quote them. We always try to reach out to them and their attorneys.
If the charges are dropped or upgraded, we WILL report that. We’ll also report any developments in the courts.
We don’t bend or own information and we always try to be fair and accurate in our reporting.
concerned 6:34 pm on May 3, 2010 Permalink
from_08872:
It’s funny, you say you don’t know anyone involved and that the facts have not yet come out, but you are assuming that Mr Smith dated this girl’s mother based on comments posted on the internet. I don’t know the people involved or the facts and I will not assume anything I read posted here is true.
How do you know it was only one text? The news article says texts (plural). If they were directed to the girls mother… how foolish to be dating and sending sexually explicit text messages to your student’s parent.
Also, just because this story came out now doesn’t mean that this girl or her mother didn’t go to the police back in June. I’m sure there has to be a lot of investigation before someone is arrested. Also, people are assuming that the mother didn’t check her texts. Maybe she did and that’s how she found out.
Then again, maybe it is a crazy mother trying to ruin someone’s life.
Again, all the facts have not yet come out. Hopefully they will and the proper justice will be served.
from_08872 7:11 pm on May 3, 2010 Permalink
Thank you Sergio, I hope that the outcome does get reported, fairly and accurately.
To Concerned: I read several different articles and different comments, not just one. My purpose is to expand the minds of some narrow-minded people who want to hang the teacher immediately over this allegation. Until there is a guilty conviction, it still is just an allegation.
An investigation into a text message(s) would not have taken 10 months to determine if the text message(s) actually existed and was valid. One warrant, which would be signed by only an accusation, would have been quick to process and quicker to serve the wireless carrier.
You are so naive to think that this country still runs on the “innocent until proven guilty” concept. That is because you were never on the receiving end of a false accusation.
My personal story? My son was arrested the same day as the allegation and grilled for 8 hours without me or his father present. He was a senior in high school and only 17 years old! We didn’t know until he didn’t show up home after school. And even after the charges were dropped, he was still home-schooled by a tutor (hired and paid for by the school) to “protect” him from further allegations. He was not allowed to attend any school events (including baseball which he was on, then kicked off, when this happened) including the senior prom. He lost his senior year over an untrue allegation! What gets me even angrier is that I believed the “victim” because of my own personal issues. Believing this girl’s story hurt my son deeply and was the worst thing I ever did.
This is why I won’t call anyone a ‘victim’ unless its totally blatant and I will never say “hang ‘m high” until I know all the facts.
This is why I want to open people’s minds to other possible scenarios; and not just believe on person’s version of events.
from_08872 7:26 pm on May 3, 2010 Permalink
I’m sorry, even I forgot a few details.
My son was arrested because he did admit to hugging the girl, but wouldn’t admit to the other things this girl said happened. I was told by Middletown PD that he was arrested and charged with “sexual molestation” because he admitted to hugging the girl, who was 16. And, if she remembered and stuck with her original story, he most likely would have been prosecuted, found guilty and would have wound up on the registry – just by this girl’s word!
Thank God she wasn’t smart enough to remember all the ‘details’ she told the principal and police originally. I think it was Lincoln who said “No one has a good enough memory to be a good enough liar”.
from_08872 7:34 pm on May 3, 2010 Permalink
Again, to CONCERNED:
You said:
“If they were directed to the girls mother… how foolish to be dating and sending sexually explicit text messages to your student’s parent.”
Are you assuming then that Mr. Smith was this girl’s teacher in the previous school year? The article never said that – only that he was a middle school phys ed teacher. Do we even know if he was her current teacher? I don’t know about you, but I do not remember ever having the same teacher for any subject two years in a row. But, then again, with the budget and school cuts, you never know.
concerned 8:58 pm on May 3, 2010 Permalink
from_08872:
Like I said, we don’t know who the real victim is here until this case is solved.
from_08872 10:20 pm on May 3, 2010 Permalink
Thank you, Concerned, just for keeping an open mind. I hope everyone else will too before the lynching and hanging happens to this man.
If he is a sick pedophile, than I do agree that he should be hung – tarred, feathered, and hung in front of everyone! In fact, I advocate severing their appendage and force feeding it to the offender. Then, test them on cures for society – like AIDS, cancer, etc. Let that scum pay his debt back to society in a real way. Then, let his victim(s) take their shots for vindication! If they can’t, I’d be happy to take the shots for them.
Everyone, please, just wait until the trial before you make any judgments or pass any sentence on this teacher. There are so many unknowns, not even a jury could pass a judgment with the limited information we have received.
See, too many people, probably biased on their own issues like I was, pass judgment and order a crucifixion without getting all the real facts.
Don’t do this (prematurely) to yet another young teacher who may really have a heart for the future but just got involved with someone who, after awhile (maybe a year?) proved to be an unstable person.
Even if something like this didn’t happen to you, it really does happen. So don’t be too quick to judge – especially just by a newspaper report.
08879 7:52 pm on May 6, 2010 Permalink
Don’t put yourself in those situations. That’s all practice what you preach.
Cautious 11:03 pm on May 14, 2010 Permalink
I know Mr. Smith not extremely well, but well enough to have liked him and trusted him. I was shocked when I first learned of this story and found it difficult to believe. He always seemed like a decent guy, but then again what does someone who would harm a child look like? Sometimes we choose to trust the wrong people, there are many children out there who have been betrayed by teachers, coaches, priests, and even family members. I don’t know what to make of this case, but I do know that no matter what the outcome the 14 year old girl is not to blame. The person who should be at the receiving end of all the anger on this page is either Mr. Smith if he did do it, or the child’s mother if he didn’t. Let me also just say that even if young girls threw themselves at Mr. Smith as it was stated earlier in the thread, if he acted, he is still to blame. I don’t care if a child throws them self naked into an adult’s lap, it is that adult’s duty to push the child away and tell them to put their clothes on. I will reserve judgement until the case is over, but in the meantime I won’t allow my child around Mr. Smith again. I pray for the sake of the 14 year old girl, the sake of those who love Mr. Smith, and the sake of his own child that he didn’t do this.
Fms Isnt Badd! 3:32 pm on May 22, 2010 Permalink
MR SMITH DIDNT DO IT! hes a great gym teacher . i hope they put the real story online !
shayroomsz 10:19 pm on June 2, 2010 Permalink
i love matt yo, i dont care what anyone has to say. Dont worry matt i know what happen
Im old enough =]
lol
fckitall1112 12:52 am on June 17, 2010 Permalink
ok so i no matt not well but i no him and i am good friends someone who is really close to him . i do not believe he did this ridiculous accusation. like it has been said he once dated the so call victims mother. the mother is probably just a messed up psych bit*h. shes also probably a very jealous person since he has moved on relationship wise. guess what psycho he dumped your ass get over it. no need to try to ruin his life because he didn’t wanna spend his life with you. another thing it is possible to have a teacher more then 1 year in a row i had the same math teacher throughout my 4 years of hs. so don’t say that bs either. i hope he is proven innocent and the girls mother rots in jail. thanks that’s all =]
jojo 9:25 pm on July 12, 2010 Permalink
i remember mr smith….. he was pretty cool, everyone lked him,
when this happened everyone was so shocked. (including me) i think that if he did wat he did he deseves 2 be in jail…..